After so long ZOUK have been renovated, i have not step in at all. Finally yesterday ladies nite, I went with my Boss, his friend, A, E, J & A. We have a fun nite. Joanne was there too with Brian but what a disappointment, she told me she ask everyone but never msg me. AND who knows Brian spotted me and we enjoy together. Well next week CNY eve who is interested to join us to ZOUK for Mambo nite again. Had a discussion with Joanne regarding our Bday on May. She wanted Boiler and i wanted Drangonfly instead due to i prefer the band more and most importantly we can RSVP the sofa area. Final discussion still pending. Any suggestion anyone.

After yesterday blog, everyone must be curious who is the malay guy and what is our storey like... Well he is working in engineering and for the 1st day I start work he has been trying to get my attention by disturbing me or greeting hi/bye to me. Till 2days ago I got his no and he was so happy that he keep msging me during work. We went to east coast park where I like most to sit and chat. We chat alot and asking alot of questions about each others. After so many questions, these are some of the things that i found out;

He is the eldest son in the family.
He has a sis who is an air stewardess in SQ.
His mum is working out station in Australia will only be back once every half a year.
He has 2 cats at home and he is staying alone in the house since his sis n mum are flying.
He is 1 year younger than me.
He used to have 5 relationship since school time, 3 puppy love and 2 serious relation after completed NS. 1st is a angmo, reason break up the gal is too wild and like to chiong alot. 2nd is a malay, reson breakup is the gal too prosessive toward him and he can't take it.
He use to ride bike and 3 years ago started driving instead. 3 months later he is getting a new car Toyota (Silver color).
He loves to drink at chili out place but not clubbing.
He is a homely person once reach home he wouldn't want to go out again, but recently because of me, he came out and fetch me to send me home.
He is going Australia this Thursday afternoon and flying back Singapore next Monday to clear his leave and visit his friends who are studying there.

I ask him what's make him wanted to go after me cause we only saw each other for the 3 months and didn't know me well and he reply;

At first when he saw me, he has the urge to know me. Each time he saw me, he wanted to know me more and so he started to chat and disturb me to get my attention. Until 2days ago, we were talking about (go out chiong never jioz) then I got his no and give him a miss call. He was very happy that nite and msg me asking me alot of questions. He was like 'Oh finally i get ur no and i'm able to get closer to u and understand u better'.

Certain things he told me that give me the comfort and respect;

Now we are still young so just do what we really wanted and dun be tied down by relations. He knows I'm studying and working at the same time so if we really together put him in the 3rd place and do what i wanted to but never put chiong in the 3rd and him in the last. He too encourage me to further my course if i wanted to.

He wanted to try out the relation cause never try will never know if we are meant to be together, if it dun works or i feel that we can't make it just tell him s long s i dun cheat him(such as having another bf at the same time) we still can be good friends.

He admits he likes me since the first sight. He wouldn't use the word LOVE cause to him this word is too big and heavy to use at the begining. He wanted me to give it a try and promised me that it will be a unforgettable relation since he is the 1st malay guy that likes me since i have no malay bf before (means he will be the 1st if i accepted him). To him LOVE is developed and keeps growing during the relations is building up and going on.

He gives me a very comfortable feeling but I really dun know if I will really accepts him. After all, the reasons is clear if i dun accepts him. At the main time, there is someone in my heart, that might be one of the reasons why i can't accept him. Well he is a nice guy, maybe i should recommand him malay gals that i know rather then wasting his time on me.

Humans are funny and fate is fooling ppl around. The one you loves either have a gf or either he dun loves u. The one you dun loves either you dun loves him n treat you like a treasure. This is Life and problems that we will always face and sloved. So stand strong and stand firm to what we looking for................

Just came back for a dinner at Cliff tonight. Enjoy the dinner and have Oyster as appetizer, and main course G have Yellow Fin Tuna, D have a black cod, E have an angus beef and me alantic seabass, last but not least we have Chocolate Truffle Cake as dessert. Glad they enjoy the dinner tonight cause it'd meant to be a celebration of Bday for G & D.

Well recently there is a malay coll. going after me and i really dun knows if i should accept him anot. He is a very very nice guy and treats me very well.. He always wants to c me and send me home.. I didn't know if i should accept him cause in my heart there is someone else. Someone i know for years and recently just get to meet again. Tooooo bad he has a gf and i dun want to be the bad gal again who break up ppl relation. The more i c him the more i have feelings for him.. Is it because i really loves him or pity him, i really dun know... Well let's fate decide if we will be together or not, or we will only be very very good friends...

We shall c for what will be my fate ;)

Well. what did I do for the whole week? As usual work and work lor. He;) he;)

Last nite went to dragonfly and meet up Gal, Blur, Jolin, Junliang and Malu as well as WX and his gf. Drink alot as usual esp with the Malu and WX around. Have a fun nite and at the same time we celebrate WX bday. Loves the live band there but the crowd is too much. All left about 3am and the last 4 standing left at 5plus. Who are the last 4 standing? That's Malu, WX, Jolin and me.

Wake up around 10plus in the morning and was lazy to go to work... hehe...

Waiting for the Gathering at Cat's home on CNY 10th February. Believe it will be fun... I will sponsor a btl of Gordon Bleu if my house stil have if not maybe JD. Going to make the guys drunk... hahahahahaha ;p

Went for a dinner last night again ;) Well this time is a 8 course Chinese Hala Dinner at the Pan Pacific Hotel. I'm there to attend a Dinner & Dance for the Central Police Division Alfa Team invited by my ex-bf.

Enjoy myself, saw alot of friends there. I saw my ex-trainee, Danviel. I also saw Arty, Nelson, XM, Jason, Ah Bin and lots of Rocher St Officers. Even the MC is someone whom we know, Justin. Chat with him for a while trying to make him recongise me cause he saboh me big time during the D&D 3 years back at Conrad. Even saw the photographer whom is Cat's photographer during her wedding this Jan 08. Didn't manage to get a chance to talk to her cause she was busy.

Eventually wanted to meet up Jun Liang and Joanne after dinner but the dinner ends as late as 12plus. It was too late so headed home instead. I was really very worry about JL. He call me early in the morning 4plus and was sobbing. My heart aches when i heard him cry. No one can help him unless he starts to help himself by standing up. Knows what his worries were but he has to be strong to face it inorder to go over it. I told him before and lots of time, perhaps to anyone who are facing some issues or problems please listen;

NO PROBLEM IS AN ISSUE,
NO ISSUE CAN'T BE SLOVED.
AS LONG AS YOU STAND FIRM AND FACE IT,
NOTHING CAN'T BE SLOVED.
WHAT EVER HAPPEN HAS HAPPEN,
NO POINT CRYING OVER IT.
BE STRONG AND FACE IT,
LIFE WILL STILL GOES ON AND EVER BETTER.

Who ever has an issue, please sloved it asap. Dun let it snowball and exploxed. By then it will be too late. No matter if it is an relationship issue, work issue, friends issue or family issue, please find someone whom you can trust and can give you an advice to talk to. You will definately feel better than keeping everything in your heart. We are human beings not robert, when till the extent we can't take it, we will go crazy. So please, do talk it out.

Huh.... Went for dinner last night at the Excelsior Hotel having Al-la-Cart buffet. Hmmmm... The food was nice and worth it. This dinner was a Thank You dinner from Cat & KP, so the whole gang of ppl were there except for Sharon. Will do a separate one for her, when she is free... After dinner we went to THE CHAMBER for a drink and chit chat, the place is relaxing and due to it's a sunday so not much ppl... He;) he;) the interesting part was, there was a couple sitting at the other corner of the room was performing some interesting show... (not till weixiong and malu told us, then we realise that is the so call lover's corner)

Have an interesting and enjoyable nite again w the groups of brother's gang. Have a good chat w a few of them and knowing what they wanted and looking forward to.

Marriage is a life time issue and takes 2 hands to clap in order to maintain the relation. Guys and Gals who are attached but not marry still have the choice to chose and find. (Knows it sounds bad) Who dun want a partner who really loves and take good care of each other???? Everyone needs it but does anyone has the courage to go and find or perhaps to accept it when it comes... 10 out of 9 NO, that's wat i believe. Y, no!!! No one want to lose everything in the end if it's not successful, it's a heavy price to pay, that's in every one's mind.

Well s for me, I'm tired and I'm down of energy to get into another relation. Well, let times slowly build up my energy till i found the one for me. Have someone in mind whom have given me a good impression but let's be friends first...

Sometimes some ppl just dun know how to appreciate what they have in life....

Y suddenly, i bring up this issue. Well after reading some of the sisters blog, i will start to think; What is the point of regret after things are done or after you given up someone you loves for no reasons???? To me i felt, since the one whom you loves dun cherish and appreciate you, no point thinking or hanging on to them. We as human being have choices all the while. Find someone whom really really treats you well and apperciate you instead of suffering quitely all by yourself.

Fates are funny things where by when you didn't even know or reliased that he or she is the one for you when you first meet. Only till the time when the string was tie then you will reliased that ; Hey i didn't even thought that we will be together for life when we first meet... Isn't FATE a very sweet thing that bought 2 different ppl of the world together ;)

Well i have gone though the time when i was really really sad where by the one i loves most didn't appreciate & cherish me at all.. It takes me at least 2 years to let it go.. He was a damp disappointment to me for the way I trusted him and believe in him. Perhaps I should say that he is a bastard in relations who is really useless and flicker minded.. Served him right if the China Gal ditch him after she get the PR..

That is why I always advice those whom ever broke off with their partner that ; It's your partner who is a fool, who is stupid that didn't know how to appreciate and cherish you. You have a choice and you will definately find someone else way better than that stupid fellow. Remember no one is indispensible, no one can't live without someone. Tomorrow will always be a better day and your fate, your future will appear as times pass....

Hey ya... just reach home after a drink with my 2 little xiao di, Grant & Kang Kang... We have a good chat and after so many years this is the 1st time we really get a chance to chilled out with each other.

Hehehe;) still have the memories of Cat & KP wedding.. Thinking of it really make me miss it so much, esp the whole day from the morning till nite. So many times i have attend a wedding and co-ordinate a wedding, this is the 1st time i seen brother's gang & sister's gang clicking so well and having alot alot of fun. Believe that is why i really miss it so much;)

This year planning my bday to celebrate at Boiler's opening a cannon with Joanne gal to save money.. All are invitied so must really enjoy ourselves this year cause last year didn't celebrate and the year before both of us didn't take our dinner and almost drunk.. Will keep everyone update of the final decission;)

It's has been at least more than 5 months i have not blog... Well, new year so new resoulations. Now starting to blog again. I am now working in The Sentosa Resort & Spa no longer in Conrad. Of course if you ask me, Do i miss the place? My answer will be YES, i do but i will never go back again. Why? 6 years is enough to stand in a place and too many things happening where it makes the place not fun to work in anymore.

Now having a good life in the Sentosa Resort waiting to take over the restaurant for opening. Well i like to do opening for restaurant as it's really fun and this is my 3rd opening that i'm doing.

Been having a fun week this week cause Cat & KP finally finish their wedding and settle down. I'm the main co-ordinator and the MC for her wedding, duo it's tired but i'm happy. From the morning till the dinner ends, we have a very very fun day. Brother's gang were fun and cheeky and very very interesting. There were full of joys and laughter thoughout the day. Brother's gang were having a hard and enjoyable time when fetching the bride from the sisters and they have their revenge during the dinner for the sisters. Ha;) Ha;) Ha;) Must be thinking how they have suffer and what they did to revenge right? Morning they were force to drink the welcome drink which is the ABC+raw egg for all except for the groom and in the evening their revenge is to make us drunk but.... they failed....... Ha;) ha;) ha;) With the Devilsjas around not easy lei.... ha;) ha;) ha;)

The programme for the whole day was:
5am in the morning, me, grace, joanne & cat were getting ready. Gracey gal was in charge of the sabotaging sessions during door opening.

7am Groom and brother's gang reach an given a welcome drink. HA;) HA;) HA;) ABC with raw egg and groom of course only have the 4 standard item which is the suan, tian, ku, la.....

8.30am Reach KP's place and the SOP

10am Reach Cat's place and the SOP

11.30am Back to hotel and rest

4.30pm Settle the reception, soleminzation and main ballroom.
The room set up was fantastic and grand.

6pm Finally Soleminzation started and MR & MRS LIM were certific;)

8pm Ballroom door opens and around 8.30pm the dinner started.

10.30pm Desserts served and everyone proceed for home sweet home.

TIRING BUT HAPPY AND ENJOY MYSELF.

CAT THIS IS FOR YOU & KP
Really really happy that CAT has finally found the one whom really treats her well and loves her the most. KP you are a lucky guy ;) Well at times Cat can be demanding but i know you can cope with it. KP please take good care of my dear sister and dun ever ever let her down, CAT cherish what you have found cause KP is an antique where it's hard to find anymore. JUST REMEMBER, THINGS TAKE 2 HANDS TO CLAP TO MAKE IT HAPPEN, SO BOTH OF YOU MUST REALLY CHERISH EACH OTHER WELL. Any misunderstanding sit sown and have a chat, dun ever quarrel to upset your relations. There are no issues that can't be sloved.

CAT hope i didn't failed you on your wedding day as the main co-ordinator and MC. Need anyone to talk to look for me, I will be there anytime JUST FOR YOU;)

Well still got few more sister to get marry so anyone of you need my help i will be glad to;)